Good advice for Men to read and women to enjoy.

Women are complicated creatures, so we are led to believe. I should know as I am one of them! Men often want to know what women really want and although a good man is always eager to please, it's not always that easy to fathom out exactly what it is that we are after.

The important thing to take into account is that when we were little girls, we loved to read fairytales and were brought up with the belief that life was really going to end up happily ever after - or at least fairly happy.

One of the problems men face as a result of this is the woman's desire for them to act exactly according to the book of dreams and fairy tales because although we are now grown adults, the child inside is still looking for the perfect ending. Heck, a lot of us are searching for the perfect beginning or a pretty cool middle section!

In fairytales, no-one ever told the prince what to do to win the heart of the princess, men in fiction always know what to do and how to act in order to get the girl! In the real world however, life is not as straight forward and this article is designed to give the men who read it a few ideas on how to add some romance into their relationship and make their woman smile!

Ten little ideas that can make a big difference

* Think of Sleeping Beauty and wake her up with breakfast or a cup of tea in bed
* Write some cute little messages and leave them around the house for her to find. You can be creative about where you put them - her make-up bag, her underwear drawer or even in her cereal box! Doing this when you are going out of town is a really nice idea because she will just keep finding them and never know where the next one might be!
* Buy her a bunch of flowers just because she likes them - not because it's her birthday, Valentine's Day or you have done something wrong!
* Cook her meal and insist that she puts her feet up and leaves you to it!
* Run her a bath with some gorgeous bubbles, light some candles and then ask if she'd like you to scrub her back!
* Take her to the movies once a month and let it be her choice of film
* Offer to do the shopping - you may need a list but offering is enough to surprise her - believe me!
* Write her a letter with your memories of how you met, tell her why you love her so much and post it! It will be a great surprise amongst the bills!
* Tell her you are going to see your parents and then take her for a day out to the zoo/theme park/funfair instead. If she asks why you aren't going the usual route to your parents then tell her you got lost!
* Find a nice photograph of the two of you and frame it. Put it up and see if she notices!

I think men often worry if they haven't got much money to spend on their girlfriend or wife but when it comes down to it, the best relationships are the ones that include the little incidental acts of kindness and love. Grand gestures may be exciting and of course we appreciate them but it's the small and thoughtful actions that bind and hold your relationship together.

男人要看，女人可以得到享受的好建议。

女人是复杂的生物，我们是如此的相信。 我就知道，因为我是其中一员。男人经常想知道女人真正想要的是什么，虽然一个好男人总是乐意取悦女人，但事实上不是那么容易弄清楚女人真正所要的。

要知道的是，当我们还是小女孩的时候，我们喜欢看童话小说，我们是带着生活应该从头到尾都是开心的－－或者至少是比较开心的信念长大。

因此，男人所要面对的一个问题是女人渴望她们的生活可以像书本里的美好梦想，童话小说一模一样，因为尽管我们现在已经长大成人，心底里的孩子性仍然追求着完美的结局。 见鬼的，我们很多人都在找完美的开始或者不错的中间部分。

在童话故事里，没有人会告诉王子做些什么去赢得公主的心，故事的王子总是知道做些什么，怎样去做来得到公主的心。 可是， 在现实世界里， 生活不是那样直接的， 这篇文章是写给那些男人，让他们知道怎样在他们跟女人之间的关系上加上一点点的浪漫，让他们的女人开怀一笑。

10个小小的主意可以改变很多。

* 想一下睡美人，叫醒她的时候把早餐或一杯茶放在床边

*写一些可爱的小纸条，把它放在房子周围，让她去找。 你可以找些意想不到的地方来放－－她的化妆包，她的内衣抽屉或者甚至是她的谷物盒！当你要到其他城市的时候做这个是挺好的主意，因为她在不断地找那些小纸条，而不知道下一次将会出现在哪里！

*买一扎花送给她仅仅是因为她喜欢－－不是因为是她的生日，情人节或者你做错事了。

*为她煮一顿饭，坚持让她消息一下让你来做。

*帮她洗澡，用上那些有大大泡沫的，点一些蜡烛，然后问她要你帮她擦背吗

*一个月跟她去看一次电影，让她自己选择看什么电影。

*请缨去购物－－你也许需要一张清单，但自动请缨已经足够让她惊喜－－相信我吧。

*写一封信给她，关于你们是怎样相遇，告诉她为什么你是那么的爱她，然后把它寄了！这是不用花多钱却是很让人惊喜的。

*告诉她你准备去看望你的父母，然后却带她去动物园，主题公园，游乐场。如果问起为什么你不是按照之前定好的路线去你父母家时，告诉她你迷路了。

*找一张是你们的好看的相片，帮它弄个相框，把它挂起来，看她是否可以留意到！

我想， 男人经常担心他们没有足够的钱花在女朋友或老婆身上， 但当来到这份上，关系最好的是那些在一些小事上表现出了爱跟心意。 大事张扬也许是让人兴奋的，的确，我们也喜欢。但把你们紧紧绑在一齐的是那些小小的体贴的行动。