Steps

1. Wash your hair at least every other day (washing in the morning prevents going out with the grease of last night). A girl loves a boy who smells nice, and cares about his image. Besides, greasy hair is not a good look on anybody, even if they look like Brad Pitt. By taking care of your hair, you at least show that you're interested in your appearance and care enough about yourself to take good care of yourself.

2. Make sure you have good hygiene.

o Brush twice a day, and floss once a day

o Wear deodorant every day. Body odor is not an attractive smell, and nobody around you enjoys it. It's a simple routine that can reap large benefits in your friendships, relationships, and with strangers!

o If your face is clean shaven, shave regularly. Stubble, when it's not intentionally there, promotes a look of unkempt.

o Wash your face every day. This helps to clear up whiteheads/blackheads, as well. However, if you are a teenager, acne is quite normal, and occurs quite often. It will be hard for you to stop getting acne. If you have a severe problem with acne, your regular doctor can most likely refer you to a good dermatologist.

3. Wear a nice cologne. It is truly amazing how it attracts attention. Don't bathe in it, though, or it'll do the opposite of the intention.

4. Be confident in yourself. Girls love guys who are confident, and confidence is also the key to getting ahead in the business world. Unless you believe in yourself, you can't sell yourself, so less people will believe in you. Remember, though, that there is a line between confidence and arrogance. Arrogance is not sexy.

5. Wear nice clothes. The style of clothes that you wear doesn't matter, because you're expressing your personality. Whatever you choose to wear, though, should be clean and ironed (if appropriate). Also do not wear pants that show a lot of boxer. This is not sexy. It is gross to almost all girls. If you are going to wear jeans, make sure they are not too baggy. This does not look good.

6. Be funny! A girl loves a guy who can genuinely make her laugh. If you notice she is being turned off by your sense of humor (which you will be able to tell by her body language) then stop. Give her space.

7. Smile because girls love smiles. It makes them feel beautiful.

Tips

· If a girl does not give you a response, don't take it to heart -- remain cool and think of your future with a new girl.

· Different time frames for hair-washing apply to different people. If your hair is dirty and greasy between times when you wash it, make it a habit to wash it more often. Likewise, if you don't need to wash your hair every other day, don't feel like you have to anyway.

· Gain confidence in yourself by doing things like exercise, running a half marathon, building something, or playing an instrument. These things will give you confidence and it will show and attract others to you.

· If you're trying to get a girlfriend talk to them. Say "hi" and start a conversation. She will most likely talk to you if you start a conversation.

· Girls like boys that pay attention to everybody, not just your clique.

· Look at the girl in that other clique. The one you sit next to in Science. She might just be cool and she probably likes you too.

· Walk past her slowly but not too slow or she will think you have problems.

· A small touch on the arm, shoulder, or head can give a girl chills if she likes you. You definitely notice the attention.

· Remember to check out the whole grade. There are some girls out there that are awesome and just aren't so popular. They would love some attention. And they don't expect so much so you can be more relaxed.

· Being aloof at the appropriate times can work wonders. Don't bathe a girl in attention - this is not sexy and you'll probably suffocate her. Being laid back will show everyone that you value yourself and that is sexy.

Warnings

· Realize that being truly sexy to someone often has little to do with how you look or smell. Being truly sexy comes through love and a relationship, which should never be based on physical characteristics.

· There is a difference between confidence and arrogance. Girls hate arrogance

· Both girls and guy - nobody feels comfortable with a partner who is also uncomfortable. The girl will think it's her fault, when it's not.

· Bragging about your looks is not hot. Paris Hilton is not hot because she brags about her looks but Jennifer Lopez is hot because she doesn't.

· Girls tend to stick together so don't be mean to one girl and expect another girl to love you.

· A lot of this "girls do and girls don't" stuff is generally good, but remember that every girl is going to be different.

Things You'll Need

· Shampoo

· Comb

· Deodorant

· Toothbrush

· Floss

· Soap

· Niceness

· A smile

· clean clothes

· confidence

· nice pair of denim

步骤

1，至少要每隔一天洗一次头发（早上洗头可以避免带着昨晚的油脂出门）。女孩喜欢身上气味不错的男孩子，而且挺在乎他的形象。况且，油头在任何人身上都不好看，即使他们长得像布拉德皮特。护理好你的头发至少表明了你在乎你的外形，而且花了不少心思照顾好自己。

2，一定要做好个人卫生

一天刷牙两次，用牙线洁牙一次。

每天涂抹香水。因为体味不是好闻的气味，你周围的人是不会喜欢的。这是一个简单的步骤，能帮你在和朋友、亲戚以及陌生人打交道时带来不少好处。

如果你的脸是刮得比较干净的，那么要定期刮。不是刻意留下的胡渣会给人带来一种不整洁的印象。

每天洗脸。这也会帮助去除"白头"或者"黑头"。当然，如果你是十几岁的男孩，频发青春痘是非常正常的。那个年纪停长痘痘很困难。如果你的青春痘很严重，你的私人医生很可能会让你咨询皮肤科专家。

3，身上喷洒一些好的古龙水。这很能吸引别人的注意。不过切忌喷洒过多，那样会起到相反的效果。

4，要充满自信。女孩喜欢自信的男人，而且自信也是在商场中拼搏的关键。除非做到相信自己，不然你就不能推销自己，那样相信你的人会更少。但是，请记住，自信和自负是有界限的。自负并不性感。

5，穿好一点。你穿什么款式无所谓，因为你有你的个性。然而你穿的衣服必须是干净的、熨烫过的（如果合适的话）。不要穿很皱的裤子，这也不性感，基本上女生都会讨厌。如果你要穿牛仔裤，不要穿那种口袋太多的，那也不好看。

6，搞笑一点！女孩喜欢能真正逗乐她们的男人。如果你发觉她对你的幽默感不感冒（你可以从她的肢体语言中察觉），那么见好就收。给她足够空间。

7，微笑。因为女孩喜欢看到微笑，那会让她们觉得自己很漂亮。

技巧

如果某一个女孩不给你答复，不要放在心上——保持冷静，想想自己和另一个女孩的未来。

不同的人适用不同的洗头频率。假如你的头发在前后两次洗头中间这段时间又脏又油的话，养成一个更勤洗头的习惯。类似，如果你觉得不需要每隔一天洗次头，那就不需要必须那样做了。

通过进行运动来获取信心。比如跑半个马拉松啦、建些东西啦或者弹奏乐器等。这些东西会带给你信心，也会展示自己而吸引到别人的关注。

如果想找女朋友，就找她们说话。以打招呼来引起一场谈话。如果你先说，她基本上会予以配合。

女孩喜欢关注所有人而不是仅限于他的死党的男人。

关注一下其他圈子里的女孩。例如坐在你旁边的理工科女生，她们只是看起来很冷酷，没准还挺喜欢你的。

走过她身旁的时候要慢一点，但不要太慢，不然她会以为你有病。

如果她喜欢你，轻轻地碰触她的胳膊、肩膀或者头会取悦她。这一点你肯定注意到了。

记得搜索整个年级的女生。有一些不是很显眼的女生其实非常不错。她们也许需要一些关注，但不会期待太多。所以你追起来更轻松。

在适当的时候显得超然能创造奇迹。不要沉浸于关注一个女生——那样并不性感而且你可能会让她感到窒息。随和一些会告诉别人你很看重自己，这是性感。

警告

要意识到：对某些人来说，真正的性感和你看起来或闻起来怎样没多大关系。真正的性感来自爱和友谊，这些是不能建立在外在的东西上的。

自信和自负是不同的。女孩讨厌自负的人。

不管男孩女孩——和一个不舒服的人在一起没人会感到舒服。女孩会认为是她的错，尽管有时并不尽然。

炫耀自己的长相并不性感。因为炫耀自己的长相，帕丽斯.希尔顿并不性感，但珍妮弗.洛佩兹很性感因为她不那样做。

女孩们喜欢黏在一起，因此不要既轻薄一个而又期待着另一个。

大体上很多的这种“女人做什么和不做什么”是正确的，但是记住每个女人都有所不同。

你需要的东西

香波

梳子

香水

牙刷

牙线

肥皂

美好

微笑

干净衣服

自信

精品牛仔裤