Nowadays young people advocate Free-love. In the instance of usual, they choose their sweet heart after catching a feeling with him or her.

From then on, they start to know more deeply about their sweet heart. Sometimes they can get a firm love with all their life, but there are also many people find that their sweet hearts seem not so perfect like they are first known by having more intercourse with them. Thus more and more couples get divorced these years than ever, which has been a serious problem of the society today.

On the contrary, people used to establish their relationship of amativeness before catching a feeling with opposite sex. But before this, both sides of the amativeness must have been certificated with frankness, sedulity and filial piety by their elderships all. The elderships trusted that it was a secure way to make their child have a happy marriage. The will of the elderships was pretty well, but did it come true? Did their child get the happiest life or a common happy life? Maybe only god knew about this question clearly.

The two points of view on top still exist together currently. I do not express my orientation of these two points of view in this article. But which way will you choose to get your marriage? How will you look for your happiest life? We can’t wait the answer which is given by the god. Maybe the selection will be put before you tomorrow.